Relationships are sooo good when they are good. Gosh, they just lift us up. Everything seems great with the world and we can weather any storm. Joy and laughter is always  close at hand and we feel strong to grow our dreams, our lives. And cozy.

But oh my, when a relationship that is important to us is just not working, life can feel SO off. We are smart people, we have a lot to offer, and yet we can end up feeling so small, confused, lost, depressed. We don’t know what to do, how to fix it.  

After awhile, we end up feeling resentful, disappointed, angry or just plain ‘down’ all the time. Bleck. It feels like a trap when that happens. How did it get to this? What the heck happened, and why does it feel so awful? What can a person do to change this?

To begin with, you’re not crazy 😉

Feeling ALL of these emotions and more is GOOD, in a sense. It shows you that you still have FEELINGS! You still CARE about yourself and your life. This is really important.

But what can you do? Things are confusing. Should you leave? Stay? What’s the right path?

GACK, why is it so hard to figure out?

The solution may NOT be in our noggin’

Our brains are good at making sandwiches, knitting socks, counting sheep…

Our brains are NOT good at figuring out emotions. Not good at all.

Downright useless. 

And yet, in a relationship it’s the EMOTIONS that make it work or not, certainly not the logic, right? But, when we’re trying to figure out a relationship with another person, we get busy trying to figure it all out with our minds, right? 

This is a recipe for an astonishing amount of frustration, confusion, and ‘getting nowhere slowly’ and can keep people stuck for years and years.

Let me show you something – a glimpse inside

While we mentally struggle with our thoughts about a relationship, a huge opportunity to move forward and really figure things out lies just under the surface of where we're paying attention.

The surprising open door, and the focus of this eKit, is through our inner physical reactions. I’ll call it our ‘energy’, and what it does in relationships can be very enlightening.

I’ll show you what I mean right now: This will show you clearly if this eKit is a good idea for you.

1. Take about 30 seconds here to close your eyes and just notice how your body feels for a little bit.
2. See if you can more or less feel your whole body sitting there.
3. When you’re ready, imagine that the other person comes in and stands very near you without touching. Notice if your body reacts to their ‘presence’. 

Bingo.

This reaction, and learning how to change it is a wide-open doorway to healing and self-empowerment. It very often changes a relationship dramatically, and it certainly changes the person who begins this journey. It takes them out of having to ‘unconsciously react’ all the time and straight into the ‘mastery’ chair of their own lives. 

Big. Change.

This is what a client Sylvia had to say about her experience with this:

“Thank you Alex, for helping me deal with the frustration and anger I was experiencing in my marriage. I attended a session with Alex when I was incredibly angry with my husband. Within an hour I went from wanting to hit my husband to feeling loving and truly appreciating him. Alex, you are truly gifted in helping me work through my struggles in relationships. Thanks so much.”   ~Sylvia

This eKit:

This 3 lesson step-by-step program of HIGHLY unique inner-energy-meditation exercises will give you the opportunity to experience:

• What exactly is happening deep inside you with your relationships, and this will change and evolve as you move through the exercises.
• How to change these reactions in minutes… leading to healing that not only YOU will feel, but often the other person too - even though they may not know you're doing this.
• How to do mini-sessions to constantly enhance your relationships with anybody.
• Gain either great improvement in your relationship with somebody, or more clarity and confidence to move on if it’s no longer for you.

Important point: the other person in this relationship does not need to be involved, at all, in the *doing* of this relationship resolver work. You, all by yourself, have astonishing power to change the energy of a relationship.

What kind of relationships are ideal for this?

Personal: your ‘close’ people – spouse, partner, kids, parents, friends…

Work: co-workers, bosses, employees, partners…

Past: people who are no longer in your life, maybe they’ve even passed on, but you notice you still have some clearing, healing, you’d love to experience in how YOU now feel about the relationship. The Relationship Resolver works great for that too.
 

And we begin this journey with the first meditation – a VISIT inside you. It's called the Visit Within, and will show you your inner physical reactions to the person you are focusing on. Once you are AWARE of these physical reactions, they often begin to change - and heal - quite on their own. Even if they've been running unconsciously for years and years.

You will be directed to this first meditation immediately upon registration. 

My wish for you…

People are the most amazing reasons for being alive. To hang out with them, to love and be loved, to share our gifts with each other. To hear someone singing, taste someone’s cooking, or laugh our fool heads off at someone’s joke… this is the stuff of life.

We may talk about world peace as if it’s some kind of impossible notion. Is it really?

I am sharing this program, putting the time into creating it because I have so much belief in the power of people to change their experience of life, and to change this world. I also believe that this relationship resolver is something you can share with your family.

If you have kids, it could make such a difference to their lives down the road.

If you’re feeling like you’ve got important things to do, a whole heap of happiness to explore, and experiences to have… if a relationship is really getting you down, or it’s time to bring it up a notch… for sure give the Relationship Resolver a whirl 🙂   

To do this program: cost and how to start

If I were to be doing this full Relationship Resolver Program 1on1 with a client, it would cost min. $675. I know this is a lot of money for many folks. This is why I’d been wanting to turn this private-client work into an eKit. So more people, maybe you, can benefit.

The Relationship Resolver self-study eKit: $97  $50 (Cdn)

If you have some questions, drop me a line personally. I'm here: alex(at)bigdreamprogram(dot)com.  I'd be so happy to tell you more, answer your questions, and help you determine if this eKit is going to be a good fit for you. :)

Big hug,

Alex